Whitney Johnson

Dreams: Sam's Dream Blog Celebrates 100 Inspirations

This is a big week on Sam’s Dream Blog!  Here at SDB, it’s celebration time for 100 posts.  Whether you have read every post, several posts, or maybe you are making your first visit, thank you.    

Here are some highlights from the first 100 posts. Follow the underlined links for the full interviews.

1. Writer Will Leitch graciously helped to kickstart SDB. First and foremost on the journey toward your dreams, Leitch says, "You have to be willing to go down with the ship. You can’t look for an escape hatch."

2. Now that you’re committed to your dream journey, per Will’s advice, Dallas Mavericks owner and business mogul Mark Cuban has this to say: "You have to determine whether or not you are willing to commit to working 20 hours a day, 7 days a week?"

3. While you’re at it, "Learn whatever you can from whoever is going to offer it. Every day you should be learning something new," San Francisco sous chef Adam Nichol says.

4. Of course, maybe your dream pursuit cannot be at the forefront of your life right now, due to other limitations for the time being.  Take heart in what leadership expert John Maxwell says: "When it comes to being an authority on a subject, spend one hour a day, five days a week, for five years. Earl Nightingale says that by doing that, you can become an expert on any subject?"

5. If all that sounds daunting, think back to your childhood, Harvard Business Review contributor and TEDx speaker Whitney Johnson says: "Each experience that we have, the good and especially the things that happen to us that we don’t deserve, shapes our dreams.  For example, one of my biggest dreams, which is to encourage others, came, I think, [because I didn’t hear enough] encouraging words as a child.  I deserved that, and I long for that sometimes. Yet, without that, would I even have felt [compelled] to begin writing about dreams in the first place?"

6.  "Exhaust all opportunities for growth," including volunteering, career expert Alexandra Levit says.

7.  Speaking of opportunities, "It’s important to know you want to do things the right way, no matter if it takes longer to accomplish. I guess it’s just being patient," Hollywood manager and producer Trevor Kaufman says.

8. Drybar’s Alli Webb has this to say about your dream pursuits: "It’s key to identify your target consumer and to make sure the need for your business really exists on a scale large enough to sustain the business for the long haul. Then execution is the next hurdle. Be prepared to work tirelessly to really nurture your idea."

9. Candy connoisseur and Sugarfina co-founder Rosie O’Neill keeps her advice about dreams short and sweet: "Try new things as often as possible, stick with what you like, and don’t waste your time with the things you don’t like? Life’s too short."

10. Finally, remember this advice from Estella’s Brilliant Bus inspiration, Estella Pyfrom:.. "Don’t shy away from your dreams. Don’t listen to negative people that say it’s not going to happen.  If you have a dream and you are willing to work for that to make it happen, it can happen."

If any of these comments particularly resonated with you, let me know below, and share with a friend!

"Dare, Dream, Do" Review

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You may have seen my interview with "Dare, Dream, Do" author Whitney Johnson. Perhaps you picked up the book already. If not, you are missing out.  Let me give you an idea why.

My favorite parts of Whitney’s book provided clarity, affirmation and instruction, similar to the intent behind Sam’s Dream Blog. If you are having trouble dreaming or setting goals, "Dare, Dream, Do" is a great tool. We all have hopes and dreams. This book shows you how to progress on your dream journey.

Citing Dr. Laura Morgan Roberts, Johnson establishes that dreams are comprised of the following: your innate talents, the competencies you have developed, what you believe (principles), and your identities (gender, race, ethnicity and religion).

If you need more help, ask yourself: "What did I like as a kid? Where are my strengths and knowledge bases? What gives me a sense of satisfaction, or what do I look forward to?" Reading "Dare, Dream, Do" reminded me that dreaming is simple when you stop and think about it or when you give your mind the freedom to wander. That’s another reminder from the book: Give yourself the time and space to dream.

You may feel powerless or overwhelmed as you start dreaming. The truth is, if you liken dreaming to meal preparation, you have more "ingredients" on hand than you think, Johnson writes. "Ingredients in search of a recipe? strengths in search of a dream.?"

The welcome to Sam’s Dream Blog states, "From the personal realm to the professional arena, no dream is too small or insignificant. On the other hand, no dream is too big or unreachable. You just have to start somewhere." How can you get started? Johnson quotes German philosopher Goethe: "Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it."

Are you ready to dream? If you are still asking, where and how do I start, let this sink in: Start dreaming simply. Sometimes I get overwhelmed by big ideas, so it’s comforting to know that I’m not alone, Johnson reassures. Most dreamers don’t have their plans all figured out in the beginning. Here’s something else to think about: Who are you familiar with who does what excites you? We need to be intentionally aware of those people. What if you asked one of them what’s one step you should take on your dream journey?

"Dare, Dream, Do" closes with this reminder: Contemplating and actually acting on a dream are two different things. Some days we take a couple backward steps. Other days we do whatever it takes to advance. The bottom line is, it’s only when we move beyond what we thought possible that our dreams happen.

I’ll leave you alone to dream now. Feel free to share below or via the "What’s Your Dream?" link at the top of the Web page!

Dreaming: Are You? If Not, Start

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What’s your dream?  It’s a question I ask often around here and on the Sam's Dream Blog Facebook page.  When you think about dreams and goals, do you sigh wistfully and say, 'I wish that were I' or 'One day?' Or are you taking steps toward making your dreams, however big or small, happen?

From my perspective right now (I say "right now" because perspective is allowed to change), I think this kind of dreaming involves a mix of thinking big and thinking tangibly. I’m pretty sure dreaming happens in that order.  Start with something huge, I mean ginormous. A lot bigger than what you think you could check off your to-do list anytime soon. A lot bigger than what you could accomplish by yourself. As Dare, Dream, Do Author Whitney Johnson says, "We really do dream best when we dream together."

We’ve got to dream big to stretch ourselves. Once we have this new capacity and space to dream, then we can become a bit more pragmatic about how to make our dreams happen. I’ll share more about that another time.

For now, my question is, do you have a list of dreams you are moving toward? You know, the stuff that your mind wanders to when you have a free moment?  The stuff that causes you to say, 'That would be so fun!' Here are some ideas to get your wheels going if you need help:

http://www.abundancetapestry.com/111-ideas-for-your-bucket-list/

http://matadornetwork.com/notebook/50-things-to-do-before-you-die/

http://www.bucketlist.net/lists/all_lists/?sort=count

If you have already been dreaming, would you share one or two dreams with me?

Thanks for reading and for being part of  the Sam’s Dream Blog community!

"Dare, Dream, Do" Author Whitney Johnson Shares Dream Journey

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Whitney Johnson is the author of "Dare, Dream, Do: Remarkable Things Happen When You Dare to Dream." She was highlighted as one of the Top thinkers on Talent at the biennial Thinkers50 ceremony in London.

Dreaming Made Simple: You left a highly successful Wall Street job.  When did you know it was time to shift gears?  Did you have doubts during the transition process, and what was your first step when you started your dream pursuit?

Whitney Johnson: The notion to leave had come to the fore a few times beforehand.  I remember one of my friends having a great business idea, and I really wanted to leave, but I knew the timing wasn’t right.   I think I really knew, though, in early 2005.  I was contemplating leaving to pursue entrepreneurial ventures, and thought, no.  But then I remember very clearly being on vacation with my husband, and I just said, "It’s time."  It was really important to me to leave at the top of my game.  I didn’t ever want to be accused of dialing it in.  Within a few weeks, I gave notice.   I haven’t really ever had doubts, but in retrospect, I was a bit impetuous.   The first step in starting toward my current dream was simply to decompress.  I probably had six months where I didn’t do much of anything other than to luxuriate in my new-found freedom.   I think before we scale a new dream, we need to rest and regroup.

Dreaming Made Simple: How long did you have your Dare to Dream blog before you started the book process, and how did you start moving toward writing a book? 

Whitney Johnson: I began blogging in late 2006.

I was frequently having conversations with women who were telling me they didn’t have a dream or didn’t know how to do a dream, and worse, didn’t believe it was their privilege to dream.  I had to do something.

At the same time I knew that someday I wanted to write a book.  I also knew that no one would publish something I’d written because I didn’t have a platform.   A low barrier-to-entry solution was to start blogging.  I blogged regularly for three years when Laurel Christensen at Time Out for Women asked me to write a book.  I initially thought I could just regroup some blog posts and I’d have a book.   Over the course of about seven months, a book gradually came together.  I knew the first part needed to be about why we needed to dream, but I didn’t quite know where I would go after that.

Dreaming Made Simple: On Twitter, you shared the quote, "Sometimes good things fall apart, so better things can fall together. Like with my book!" you added.  Could you elaborate on this experience?

Whitney Johnson: Three weeks before what was then Dare to Dream was supposed to go to print, the publisher I was working with decided not to publish the book, unless I would undergo a significant directional shift.  I was devastated.  After a few weeks, we agreed to amicably part ways.  This was late 2010.   Which meant that in March 2011 when the book was to have been published, I had barely signed on an agent, and was now sending the manuscript out to publishers.  In the interim, I did tighten up the book considerably, down from a word count of 100k to 70k - I had time to ask for additional blurbs - to improve how I write and to be more prepared generally to put my book into others' hands.   In the falling apart, better things have fallen together.

Dreaming Made Simple: What is it about the subject of dreams that makes you come alive?

Whitney Johnson: Hope. I struggle to be hopeful; I think many of us do.  When I dream, and especially when I help others dream, hope smiles brightly before us - and I feel soul-satisfyingly happy.

Dreaming Made Simple: Who has been a dream coach or dream journey mentor in your life?

Whitney Johnson: In the archetypal Karate Kid-sense, I can think of one person - one of my college professors.  That said, I think we need to revisit the mentoring equation, as I wrote here.  There’s a tendency to want to find that one person, but I think we are better served to see mentors as people with whom we work for a finite period of time - and we learn and/or teach very specific things - like my learning from Laura Forte/DeWayne Shaw how to be a good equity analyst.

Dreaming Made Simple: What’s a big lesson you have learned in regard to pursuing dreams?

Whitney Johnson: Each experience that we have, the good and especially the things that happen to us that we don’t deserve, shapes our dreams.  For example, one of my biggest dreams, which is to encourage others, came, I think, [because I didn’t hear enough] encouraging words as a child.  I deserved that, and I long for that sometimes. Yet, without that, would I even have felt [compelled] to begin writing about dreams in the first place?

See also my post on Sheryl Sandberg.

Read more from Whitney here